I was literally falling apart...
AND I REALISED THAT MY FERTILITY JOURNEY NEEDED A DIFFERENT APPROACH AND THAT ‘PHYSICAL’ WAS ONLY ONE PART OF THE PROCESS.
When I was pregnant and miscarrying my baby, I was terrified that I would never get pregnant again.
My friend told me to “just relax”.
I’d already spent 10 years trying to conceive and this baby was conceived via IVF.
I was at my lowest of lows and emotionally and mentally unwell.
AND I REALISED THAT MY FERTILITY JOURNEY NEEDED A DIFFERENT APPROACH AND THAT ‘PHYSICAL’ WAS ONLY ONE PART OF THE PROCESS.
Having fertility challenges can be a miserable and lonely life.
And it’s hard to explain to anyone who hasn’t experienced it that it’s all you can think about because you WANT that precious little baby so much. I mean, you don’t just THINK about it, you EAT, SLEEP and BREATHE it too.
You’ve cut out everything fun from your diet, you don’t go out anymore because you don’t drink alcohol (or beat yourself up if you do), in fact, you aren’t really having any fun at all!
Your life is now about doctor, naturopath, acupuncture appointments and spending hours googling symptoms on forums. You’ve been poked and prodded more times than you care to think about and you are beginning to resent your body and everything around you.
What’s more, it seems so easy for everyone else and you literally see pregnant women EVERYWHERE!
– the fun you used to have,
– the friends that were so important to you,
– the husband you were so in love with,
– and the woman that you used to be.
And you are desperate to get yourself back and have started thinking…
There HAS to be a better way!
Feeling broken and like your whole life is on hold isn’t fun. And that’s where I come in.
I have helped women all over the globe to transform their lives by actually healing their hearts from trauma, feeling calmer, having more clarity, gaining control of their mental health and emotions, and approaching their fertility differently.
You need a helping hand and I know how to get you feeling more empowered and finding your smile again.
You battle to have someone truly understand what you are going through and the graveness of how you are thinking and feeling. Let alone someone who is able to help you more forward to healing. Not only will I understand your pain, I will know how to help you heal in a way that makes sense to you.
You try to do things that bring you happiness and you used to enjoy but everything is tinged with sadness and you are just not sure how to find any joy in your world again.
Your thoughts and emotions are consuming you and you desperately want to think positively and feel better about your life and find some hope in your fertility journey again.
You just feel so alone and you just aren’t sure what to do anymore.
Fertility challenges start to become a full time job. And google searches and researching and changing your diet and your lifestyle and all the appointment becomes too much. And you start to realise that you cannot think about anything else.
You know that mentally, emotionally and spiritually you just don’t feel healthy and you know that your nervous system is currently haywire and you want to set your body up for the best chance.
You learn to let your emotions guide you, to process them fully so you don't carry them around with you and calm down your nervous system to allow your hormones to balance naturally and you feel calm.
You identify and eliminate your emotional triggers, uncover the thoughts and beliefs that are keeping you stuck and feeling low, strengthen your resilience and start to feel empowered.
You identify and eliminate all fears, conflicts and resistances and traumas to getting pregnant and to calm down your nervous system to allow your body to prioritise reproduction.
You build your inner identity and self-worth to rewire your mind and body to work for you, to learn to advocate for yourself and to feel in control.
You eliminate the noise around you so you can tap into your intuition and follow the path that is right for you, so you have no regrets.
After 4 unsuccessful IVF rounds and my 42nd birthday looming, I came to the very difficult decision that this may never happen for me.
I was exhausted, had lost nearly all sense of hope and couldn’t put my body or emotions through any more of the roller coaster ride that is IVF.
This is where I came across Bella.
From my first conversation with Bella, I felt completely understood and supported. Bella is compassionate, thoughtful, experienced and insightful.
We worked on subconscious programming that may have been holding me back, not only in my fertility journey, but in my entire life.
After just a month of working with Bella, on my fifth transfer cycle, I became pregnant.
Working with Bella is like having a conversation with a trusted friend. She guides you to heal where you need to, but also challenges you where it’s required. Always in a truly supportive manner.
Her meditations are just beautiful.
Private coaching Program WIth Bella
Working together is not just about the time we spend on Zoom. You receive ongoing access to me to chat whenever life gets hard as well as amazing tools and resources that will keep you moving forward.
Every conception journey is unique. 4 times per month for 75 minutes, you will have one-to-one private coaching sessions with me where we truly get to understand your unique situation. These sessions are conducted on Zoom.
When I say I offer real support I mean it. If you are stuck or need support or need something clarified, then we want you to keep moving in-between sessions. I currently chat with clients over text, email, messenger. and phone between sessions.
You will receive full access to my transformational program The Fertility Shift. Full of educational videos, exercises, hypnosis tracks and more.
When I say firepower, you get the works. You will get lifetime access to my online courses (including upgrades) so that you can continue to support yourself where needed.
Everyone of my clients set of circumstances are different – that’s why I personalise each session.
I know you are busy and so each personalised session and homework piece is to ensure our time together is as effective as possible.
It is no secret. I have the t-shirt for fertility challenges. So I understand from a deep and personal place what you are going through and why you are feeling that way and just how difficult it is.
1. I have formal training, I am a certified Master NLP Practitioner, Hypnotherapist and Timeline Therapist, I have my diploma in life-coaching and certified in 3 Keys Hypnofertility.
2. I’ll give you tools for life. The one thing I’ve learnt about life is the challenges don’t stop, but how you handle challenges can greatly change your experience. I’ll teach you how to handle any situation.
3. I know how to work with people in order to get them the best results and get the best out of them.
4. The tools I use aren’t just surface level things like mediation, gratitude journals and affirmations. I work with you on the unconscious level, at the level of your nervous system, where all REAL change happens.
Regardless of what happens, together we will find a way to get you back on track to really enjoying your life again.
Incredible support and guidance to allow you to get results much faster
A deeper understanding of yourself, your mind and how you can actually create lasting change for yourself to support yourself through any challenge in life.
A toolkit of resources that will allow you to change old patterns, improve your fertility and give you a zest for life again.
A feeling of calm and clarity about how to approach your life and fertility journey.
A clear path forwards so that you feel confident in yourself and your fertility.
My one-on-one intensive private coaching program will help you to transform your emotional and mental well-being and naturally get your body back to a more fertile state whether you are trying naturally or through IVF/IUI.
$697/month (USD) or £547(GPB)
x 2 months
2 months of full support
– 8 x 75 minute coaching sessions to really affect change – valued at $3000
– Unlimited access to me via email and messenger to chat when you need it most – valued at $1000
– Weekly homework and pre-recorded videos to keep you moving fast between sessions – valued at $1000
– Access to my signature program The Fertility Shift, which includes bonus videos and hypnosis library – valued at $597
Total value of over $5500+
I work with women all over the world to help them to feel a whole lot better NOW and to conceive their baby.
I currently have clients in Canada, USA, Australia and Europe.
I typically work Tues – Thurs from 9am – 2pm BST (London)
Whether you are trying to conceive naturally or through reproductive assisted methods such asn IVF, IUI, ICSI, Ovulation Induction or Egg/Embryo Donor, this private coaching is designed to work alongside the method you are using.
Many of my clients do IVF while they work with me and I myself did IVF to conceive my son.
I’ve even had clients who did IVF and then ended up getting pregnant naturally against the odds.
The program will help you to enhance your fertility as well as cope with the journey and rebuild your life and emotional well-being.
Mind-Body programs have been studied and found to assist people regardless of age, method of trying or years of trying.
The majority of the women that I work range in age from 35-44, however I have worked with women younger and older than this too.
Each persons situation is unique.
Private Coaching will give you a lot of life skills to be able to cope with the fertility journey, find peace on your journey, rebuild your life and self-esteem so you are enjoying your life again as well as enhance your fertility.
Well that would be amazing!
Often I find that women need support during their first 12 weeks of conception too.
Many women I know are equally scared of not getting pregnant as they are of getting pregnant because they fear being anxious in their first trimester waiting for something to go wrong.
This program and these skills will set you up for a happy, healthy pregnancy so you can get on with enjoying every minute of it.
Plus, the things you will learn will set you up to be the best role model and mother a child could ever want.
If you have a question, then I want to answer it. Book in a call so we can have a chat.
– Are trying to get pregnant and have the dreaded ‘unexplained’ infertility
– Have a diagnosis of a physical condition like PCOS, endometriosis, diminished ovarian reserve (or anything else) but believe in the wisdom of your mind and body to go beyond the physical to boost your chances of pregnancy dramatically.
– Are open-minded and willing to be introspective and get curious about yourself, your mind and your journey.
– Can see that your fertility challenges are a platform for personal growth.
– Want to have a better life now and stop the constant misery.
– Take responsibility for your own results, will actually implement the tools, techniques and other things into your life that I have spent years honing and truly WANT to do this journey differently to call in your baby, and
– Know that asking for help is a sign of strength and really want that support from someone who truly knows what it is like
Then join me!
If you are committed to doing your fertility journey with more joy, grace and ease, apply now!